Settle for less and regret later..get comfortable for little and tear later.

Not once in while have you ever murmured to your self making pouty faces, regretting on a an issue or situation that you settled on that hasn’t been of no help neither been adding value in your life. We have various factors that make us settle less.They include;

1)GETTING COMFORTABLE WHERE ARE NOT MEANT – We oftenly sit and slumber after we get to where we are destined. Most of the times we don’t even know that the destination we are in won’t last even for long. This mostly happen to the young people where that get comfortable in less things that are not meant for them. You ask for one thousand shillings,when given five hundred shillings you settle for that. You shouldn’t get comfortable with that but work to get more five hundred shillings. Avoid getting comfortable to less things.

2)DEGRADING TO UPGRADE OTHERS – N ever degrade yourself to upgrade others. Be it in your esteem be it in your selftl concept. Upgrade your self esteem always and let your self concept be on a higher grade. If your self esteem is on a high grade there will be no time will you find your self comfortable for less. The same happens when you upgrade your self concept. You will never settle for less.

3)LESS OBSESSION ON YOURSELF – You will always find yourself setting for less, if you have less obsession on yourself. You have to have the highest obsession on yourself so as to settle for more. Love whom you are,what you do,and what makes up that whole you. With that you will never settle for less.

4)CHANNELING NEGATIVE VIBES – Who does that? Who channels negative vibes and thinks that he will not regret? Like nothing you do or say is positive in your life? Always Chanel positive vibes all the time and all day. Be positive and don’t let negativity make you to settle for less.

Make sure you don’t get comfortable or settle for less. This is to avoid future regrets and a lot of I wish I knew.

Settle for less regret later. Get comfortable for little and tear later

Settle for less and regret later..get comfortable for little and tear later.

Not once in while have you ever murmured to your self making pouty faces, regretting on a an issue or situation that you settled on that hasn’t been of no help neither been adding value in your life. We have various factors that make us settle less.They include;

1)GETTING COMFORTABLE WHERE ARE NOT MEANT – We oftenly sit and slumber after we get to where we are destined. Most of the times we don’t even know that the destination we are in won’t last even for long. This mostly happen to the young people where that get comfortable in less things that are not meant for them. You ask for one thousand shillings,when given five hundred shillings you settle for that. You shouldn’t get comfortable with that but work to get more five hundred shillings. Avoid getting comfortable to less things.

2)DEGRADING TO UPGRADE OTHERS – N ever degrade yourself to upgrade others. Be it in your esteem be it in your selftl concept. Upgrade your self esteem always and let your self concept be on a higher grade. If your self esteem is on a high grade there will be no time will you find your self comfortable for less. The same happens when you upgrade your self concept. You will never settle for less.

3)LESS OBSESSION ON YOURSELF – You will always find yourself setting for less, if you have less obsession on yourself. You have to have the highest obsession on yourself so as to settle for more. Love whom you are,what you do,and what makes up that whole you. With that you will never settle for less.

4)CHANNELING NEGATIVE VIBES – Who does that? Who channels negative vibes and thinks that he will not regret? Like nothing you do or say is positive in your life? Always Chanel positive vibes all the time and all day. Be positive and don’t let negativity make you to settle for less.

Make sure you don’t get comfortable or settle for less. This is to avoid future regrets and a lot of I wish I knew.

Settle for less regret later. Get comfortable for little and tear later

Youths and inheritance

Its so often that if you knock maybe two houses in your neighbouring and ask about inheritance there won’t be silence.

I met him while running my day to day errands and its true that I had not seen him for days after the demise of his father. His age is approximately twenty three this shows that he should have been completing his university studies. I recall he was a nerd back in highschool as he used to show me some chemistry and mathematics questions.

We walked together conversing of our whereabouts since the day we last talked. That is when he spurt the issues he was going to handle that day. Mum tangu dad akufe amekuwa kazi ni kuuza vitu za home kutoka ng’ombe saii anataka kuuza lori na hizo vitu zinastahili kuwa zangu!(after dad dies mum has been selling our home things from the cows and now he is looking forward to sell my dads lorry)

So I asked him what he was up to with that issue. He told me that he was to go to his Auncle and sort the issue. They were to hide the death certificate making it impossible for her mother to sell anything that belonged to his father.

I was not against the plan but my question was; why is this guy so much interested in his dads property? I told him that her mum might be having a hard time getting ends meet, as before his dad died she was not working because she was just a house wife.

He did not want to hear anything. I also told him maybe the things his mother was selling was from both his dads sweat and the mother too. Abit ironic. That too was just deaf to his ears. I asked him instead of fighting for what your dad has left why don’t you work and get your own? It was then that he had already got to the bus station that he boarded a bus and left me with; tutaongea baadae ( we well talk later)

It ringed to me that youths urge to inherit their parents property with them not working hard to acquire their own is in an upsurge. I take it to be preposterous to do so. After demise of their parents who have worked hard in the previous years to acquire wealth this youths don’t even want to know how to spend the wealth. They only want it.

Some can’t even wait for wills to be written. Slumbering all day and desiring their parents to kick the bucket is their daily prayer.

Youths are needed to have a wake up call. And know the need of owning something. They need to know the hard work,pain, and patient needed to own a thing. They need to know nothing comes on a silver plater. Nothing good comes easy.

Misuse of yolo

YOLO- meaning You Only Live one has drastically been misused. This is particularly by the young people. Apparently the age bracket of the young people that am talking about is between fifteen to thirty years.

With the YOLO thing individual do take their lives how they want because they know you will live once and not twice. Okay its true in this earth you only live once but why put your life in danger or plaster your life with disgusting things that no one wants to look at you twice?

Clothing- African youths have adapted to western culture so much that they cloth in a very an wanting manner. Clothes worn by them can’t even be described. Would you say they are bad? No just say they don’t cloth at all. There is no way you put on a dress that started too early and ended too late.

I mean a dress almost below your breasts and they end right on your thigh’s. That’s so distorting. How will you even walk? I don’t know. Dressing has been one of the most factor that is leading to culture erosion.

Distorting pictures – we have seen the ifikie wazazi (get to parents) thing that went viral. The pictures that were taken by the young people I don’t think our eyes could even hold the sight to them. Some of the pictures can’t even be looked by our parents. Distorting pictures from people even at the age of fifteen. What is that? Is it still YOLO? I think its too much of us. The pictures portrayed a lot. In my mind I thought of how this youths asked for Money from their parents so as to go for the shoots but did not bring pictures.

Then I could see a parent getting a what’s app text from unknown number . ooh its a picture it loads and booom. Its his son or her daughter. She can’t can’t even scream because when neighbors come what will she say? She just silence. Waits for you and when you arrive …….

She actually is ashamed of you and can’t even say a word. You are a disgrace to her. Distorted pictures from us make us lower our respect as youths from our parents. Leaving us with curses from them..

All this is got from misuse of the word YOLO . Instead of this disturbing and distorting images youths portray in the name if living once, its a high time we change and do advantageous things.

Things that will portray a good image of us. Why don’t we curve our names so that whenever our names are mentioned, a thousand of appraisals about us are raised.

Lets do things that would help us and also the society. We don’t have to live once under fun that is helping no one. Just for our own hearts desires.

We need to change. Change is for the better. YOLO would be fun if we did best for us and for others .

Love and not fall in love

Was it an advantage that we couldn’t eat when a little think of them in our minds made us full. We couldn’t hold the looks. Of each other eyes because they were hearts. They loved more than our hearts and minds did.

Yes she was beautiful,a human being worth to be proud of. Its true God that was showing of when creating creating her. And him he was an apple for everyone. They all wanted a bite. Handsome was an underestimate and lovely was just an underrating word to describe him. He was just…

But why? Whey would she make him climb mountains and swim oceans just be in vain. Did she just make a dry grass fire before and now it’s hard for her to stop it? Did she just pin out the grenade and now she was running away from the eruption..

He loved her. But she was now turning down the curtain for him. Was it that he wasn’t best for her? Of course he had every thing, love ,wealth and all women could ask for. But he remembers she said *we can’t be. You just not my type* ….

This happens to most of us when we think that we have already found our life partners,Our soul mates. Not realizing that we fell in love.

We don’t have to fall in love. We have to love. This is to avoid little hurts and exhausts from loving the wrong.

Hence:

Love but don’t fall in it..