YOUTHS AND LEADERSHIP

Not once or twice have we said or heard that the youths are our next leaders. Maybe you heard it as the youths are the leaders of tomorrow. You also heard that the age batch of youths is between eighteen years to thirty five years.I would also not forget  to remind you that you’ve heard them saying that youths are not the leaders of tomorrow but they are the leaders of today. Today meaning right now.

I would nail the coffin if i said this is what is applied today. Its been contrary to what  our ears have heard or what our mouth uttered. Apparently the age batch of the youths is not seen in the leadership bracket. With leadership bracket i mean that its not easy to see any youth in the top leadership. Leading may not be in a country but also in various companies or maybe industries.

Let me applaud that youths are big minded. Yes they need those leadership slots. Why would a slot of leading revolve around the same human being. With greyed hair, hoarse shaking voice, some cant even hold pens in signing contracts? There are various reasons why youths should be entitled to leadership in a given country.This being;

  • Youths are more receptive to change and have a large stake in creating a strong today tomorrow and future. Youth leadership facilitates positive social change including  structures,policies and procedures that are demand-driven to address the needs of a country.
  • Youth readership in companies and industries increases their knowledge ,practical skills, strengthening their social interest,and nurturing long term commitment in entrepreneurship and creative problem solving methods.
  • Young leaders are good at setting stretch  goals.With this i mean setting goals or objectives and making sure that are met.We can all see how the leaders of today sandbag a goal so that they may not work hard on it or run the risk of falling short.
  • Youths have a high need of achievement and therefore will put every ounce of energy to achieve their goals.In contrast when someone has been in an organization as a leader for so long, it is easy for him or her to became complacent  and to see the status quo as sufficient.

If youth leadership is entitled to different companies,industries, or sectors it would be an advantages because the large number of people in a given country contains the youths. This  gives the country a good set up or foundation of big minds, creative achievements and vast development.

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ADVANTAGES OF BEING JEALOUS

CaptureOnce in your lifetime you’ve ever had this feeling of an envious resentment on someones possessions,  achievements or perceived advantage.You were jealous. Somehow this word has been known to be a bad  feeling.It shows  lack of happiness in other people upsurge in achievements. Jealousy has been a bad figure to portray. No one sees the advantage of being jealous.It is known to be a sign of insecurity,weakness and obsession. Of which its true.

No one admits that he or she is jealous on anyone. There are some who would give a slight laugh when their friends get an achievement, others will hide their fangs about to spit the venom and give a slow tender pat on their friends back when they achieve something. But they are only pretending.They are jealous.

Desultorily lets talk about advantages of being jealous.

IT HELPS ONE TO REVEAL THE NEXT PROGRESSION.

When you swallowed the hard gulp that almost chocked you because of what you felt about your friends achievement, you couldn’t even breath well. You wanted to be like him or her. You needed such a step as him or her.You realized that you needed to be like him. You needed to work hard on something. You revealed you revealed the next progression.

IT SHOWS POSSIBILITIES.

Once you reveal your next progression you realize that there is possibility in doing something. Jealousy is an advantage is realizing the possibility of handling or getting a certain achievement.

JEALOUSY BUILDS CURIOSITY.

Oh yes curiosity killed the cat. You cant help being curious about someones achievements. You have the 3women and 1 husband in your tongue. You are like,WHEN,WHO,WHICH,  and HOW. You cant wait to know how one got to achieve something that seemed impossible. Its out of jealousy that you become curious.

STRENGTHENING RELATIONSHIPS.

We all know that jealousy is a nail  to a coffin. Its funny saying that being jealous will strengthen our relationships with people. But imagine  the curiosity built after jealousy, one will always be close to the person who had achieved a certain goal and be getting each and every advise given. With time the relationship between the two will be built.

JEALOUSY INCREASES COMPLETION. 

No one  would like to be defeated. Even though we all cant be winners at list when there is competition growth and development is seen. Out of jealous,competition is built where growth and development in different ways is established

I miss you..

I miss you. Yes you. Remember how small you were before you grew into  the big human being you are now. Before you developed and knew what was right and wrong. I miss the you when you were just innocent. Innocent for the world.

You were dear to everyone. Your cheeks were as soft as cotton and everyone must have smiled while touching them. You were their apple. Can you remember how people were generous to you? Can you?

When you cried people took turns to make you smile. They took turns to carry you singing you lullabies for you to sleep. You were little and so innocent pure and free from heartbreaks….

You never watched your steps before walking and you did not trip. You never watched your words before talking yet you did not offend anyone..

Look at you now. There ain’t no heart break you’ve not come across. If you look back you just miss the past you. The time you even played and talked to stones.

You have now grown to be a big human being. Not innocent but always guilty. Judged by not only your actions but also your words. You don’t just walk or talk like you used to before. Now you need to be keen.

You must look before you step, You must watch your words before speaking, You must taste before giving it out, You must weigh it before….

Because you have grown up. And I miss you. The past you.

Settle for less and regret later..get comfortable for little and tear later.

Not once in while have you ever murmured to your self making pouty faces, regretting on a an issue or situation that you settled on that hasn’t been of no help neither been adding value in your life. We have various factors that make us settle less.They include;

1)GETTING COMFORTABLE WHERE ARE NOT MEANT – We oftenly sit and slumber after we get to where we are destined. Most of the times we don’t even know that the destination we are in won’t last even for long. This mostly happen to the young people where that get comfortable in less things that are not meant for them. You ask for one thousand shillings,when given five hundred shillings you settle for that. You shouldn’t get comfortable with that but work to get more five hundred shillings. Avoid getting comfortable to less things.

2)DEGRADING TO UPGRADE OTHERS – N ever degrade yourself to upgrade others. Be it in your esteem be it in your selftl concept. Upgrade your self esteem always and let your self concept be on a higher grade. If your self esteem is on a high grade there will be no time will you find your self comfortable for less. The same happens when you upgrade your self concept. You will never settle for less.

3)LESS OBSESSION ON YOURSELF – You will always find yourself setting for less, if you have less obsession on yourself. You have to have the highest obsession on yourself so as to settle for more. Love whom you are,what you do,and what makes up that whole you. With that you will never settle for less.

4)CHANNELING NEGATIVE VIBES – Who does that? Who channels negative vibes and thinks that he will not regret? Like nothing you do or say is positive in your life? Always Chanel positive vibes all the time and all day. Be positive and don’t let negativity make you to settle for less.

Make sure you don’t get comfortable or settle for less. This is to avoid future regrets and a lot of I wish I knew.

Settle for less regret later. Get comfortable for little and tear later

Settle for less and regret later..get comfortable for little and tear later.

Not once in while have you ever murmured to your self making pouty faces, regretting on a an issue or situation that you settled on that hasn’t been of no help neither been adding value in your life. We have various factors that make us settle less.They include;

1)GETTING COMFORTABLE WHERE ARE NOT MEANT – We oftenly sit and slumber after we get to where we are destined. Most of the times we don’t even know that the destination we are in won’t last even for long. This mostly happen to the young people where that get comfortable in less things that are not meant for them. You ask for one thousand shillings,when given five hundred shillings you settle for that. You shouldn’t get comfortable with that but work to get more five hundred shillings. Avoid getting comfortable to less things.

2)DEGRADING TO UPGRADE OTHERS – N ever degrade yourself to upgrade others. Be it in your esteem be it in your selftl concept. Upgrade your self esteem always and let your self concept be on a higher grade. If your self esteem is on a high grade there will be no time will you find your self comfortable for less. The same happens when you upgrade your self concept. You will never settle for less.

3)LESS OBSESSION ON YOURSELF – You will always find yourself setting for less, if you have less obsession on yourself. You have to have the highest obsession on yourself so as to settle for more. Love whom you are,what you do,and what makes up that whole you. With that you will never settle for less.

4)CHANNELING NEGATIVE VIBES – Who does that? Who channels negative vibes and thinks that he will not regret? Like nothing you do or say is positive in your life? Always Chanel positive vibes all the time and all day. Be positive and don’t let negativity make you to settle for less.

Make sure you don’t get comfortable or settle for less. This is to avoid future regrets and a lot of I wish I knew.

Settle for less regret later. Get comfortable for little and tear later